Dear ................. , I haven't told you in so many words, but you are the nicest guy I've ever met. You're thoughtful, warm and you have a wonderful sense of humor. I Know you would like for our friendship to blossom, but I'm afraid it's not meant to be. You are special to me, but the fact is, you are TOO nice. I guess I'm used to jerks who cheat, lie and treat me badly. All the kind things you do make me feel bad -- it's as though I don't deserve to be treated so well and it makes me feel guilty. I know you will make some lucky woman very happy one day. Under different circumstances, maybe it could have worked for us. But you know how, in the movies, where the evil villains are more exciting to watch than the good guys? What I'm saying is, I'll always think of you as a sweet, kind-hearted doormat. Sincerely,

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   Dear ............, When we broke up, I thought it would be easy to forget about you. I was angry, hurt and relieved that the pain was finally over.Over the past few months, I've had time to heal and to think. I hope you have, too, even though you seemed to recover quickly and start another relationship right away.I realize now that I didn't cause all our problems. Sure, I caused my share -- being jealous of the time you spent hanging out with your friends or playing pointless computer games, getting mad at the way you put the toilet-paper roll on the wrong way. I just felt that, if you really cared, you would try to meet me halfway.I know you don't like to cover old ground, so I'll get to the point. I want us to have another chance. The time we've been apart has been hard, but I think I've learned what's important to me. I wonder where your heart is right now. I know we risk getting hurt all over again, but my feelings for you have only grown stronger.Can we meet for coffee to talk things over? Hopefully,

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   Dear ...... , Do you realize how many weeks have passed been since we first met on the Net? Our fingers have created an electronic ocean of words whose tide has carried us to a higher ground. Despite what people say about meeting people online, I feel like we have gotten to know one another in a strange, magical way we could not have done in person. We think alike, we believe in the same things and we have come to care deeply about each other.To put it simply, I think we're in love. The miles between us exist in the physical world, not in our hearts. Should we now take the bold step of meeting face to face? That thought is both scary and exciting, isn't it? I've spent many nights imagining your touch, the way you walk, the warm light in your eyes. I know that your photo doesn't do you justice (I just hope you won't be disappointed in me after all the anticipation.) We need to find out if our feelings can grow in the non-virtual world. I'm confident they can, and would love to visit soon to prove it! Sincerely,

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