Question
| ok... to start off... i went to visit my mom
out of town 4 hours away for the summer. she introduced me to a guy and i
completely fell head over heals for him. i loved everyting about him. we
spent all summer together and grew closer with each passing day. at the end
of the summer it came time for me to leave and go back home for school. i
was home 3 days and decided to go back and live with my mom to be with him.
i left everything for this guy i was so in love with. we were together
almost 8 months and they were the best 8 months of my life. i was more in
love than i had ever been. 4 days before our 8 month anniversary he broke up
with me. i knew it was coming cause for 2 weeks things were so different
than they used to be. he told me he still wanted to be close friends and
that deep down he still loved me but he couldnt take things anymore. now we
dont talk and when he does say somthing to me is talking sh*t. im still so
in love with him even though he broke my heart and want to be with him more
than anything. hes my world, my heart, and soul. i want to get him back
because i know hes the one. everyone tells me he loves me and he will come
back when he grows out of this phase. but, what do i do in the mean time. my
heart is hurting and i cry everyday for him. someone help me please! -- broken hearted, Grace! |
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Advice
| it sounds like you were truly in love with this guy, 8 months is a long time. i know how you feel i once was with this guy and we dated for a long time then one day he asked me to marry him and i told him that i couldn't find anything i would rather do than spend the rest of my life with him. it was like a fairy tale we had decided how many kids we wanted to have together and we even had their names picked out and everything. i just felt like o-m-g this is a dream come true. but then things started to change and we were fighting costantly. then one day he called me up right when he got home and told me that we needed to talk, i didn't think that we were going to break up because he would say things like that and he would just tell me how much he loved me and stuff, but it was a heart breaker! i dated a few guys after words but it was only out of pitty. i didn't like them but i had 2 4get about him some how. his friends would come up to me and tell me that he would say that he still loved me and i tried so hard not to believe then even though they were some of MY b/f's 2! eventualy i forgot about him. now i know what true love really is. i have a new faincee. here's my advice 2 you. you won't know what love truly is untill you fall in love again. if he let you go after u n' him spent so much time together n' after ya'll shared so many memories, then he is defenantly NOT worth having some1 as great as you. u sound like a great person and he WAS a big part of ur life but you have 2 move on. now since u've been hurt so badly u will know who is true 2 u and who isn't. like every1 says you will learn 4rum ur mistakes and 4rum the mistakes of others. there isn't anything wrong form taking time to find the 1 who truly luves you and if you r making them wait and they don't feel like waiting aroud 4 u, then there not woth your love and heart. |