Question
| Went out with this guy for a good two year,
had something sort of a long distance relationship as I was at University
most of the time. At one point, while I was there he made his ex pregnant,
she had always been on his case even when I was around, and he flippin
entertained him, you know how guys just want to be Mr nice guy to evry
chick. He sez that he had had too much to drink and didnt remember jack.
Yes, true he dont want the girl, to date they are staying separate and a a
little girl. I ran away so that maybe I jcan heal, wenjt to do my attachment
for school work related learning in another city. But, its been 4 months
away from him and I miss him so much.. Have you ever loved , and hated
somebody at the same time? He hurt me so bad, but I jus cant stop thinkin
about him, I LOVE him.. but I know nothing will ever work, and i am failing
to move on, cant envision myself with any other guy.I seem to be meeting the
most disgusting guys, none love me. Im also afraid that I cant trust
anymore, becoz I havbe this thing of loving completely when I get down to
lovin someone, now Im jus afraid that I wiil concentrate all my energies on
someone, and they will shit on ma face agen . Help me guys, how do you stop
you heart burning for somebody, how do you stop youself from someone who
probably doesnt give a hoot about you? How and mwhere do you find some one
who honestly loves you without expecting sex from you? Funny, I thot this
guy was comfortable the way we were, he never once asked me for sex, but he
did a lot for me instead, was there for me through all hell I went through
in ma life..... What do I do good people, whoy do peolpe hurt others like
that, why doesnt somebody just love me? -- Natasha |
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Advice
| hey natasha .. wnt thru ur problem ... well u seem to b broken .. bt this wont work .. u have 2 cm out vth it .. i understand thts its difficult but nt impossible,right ! yes,time is an eternal healer nd u said its been 4 months .. bt the prob is within u,u ve 2 take it out slice by slice .. ppl luv the person who r compatible enough fr them .. may b u r 2 hurted tht u have lost urslf nd tht might b the reason tht other ppl r nt involved vth u ... plz .. hold ur self 4m gettin blown away .. just keep cool ... ok .. bye |