Question
| i dont know where to start from.i was going
around with a guy(he's a year older than me).i know him for the past 7 years
but the relationship did'nt last not even for a month.the reason was
that,one of my friends started talking to him and she told me that he only
wanted me physically. it was hard to believe her.i started having doubts
about him and i thought thats its gonna be fine if i brake the relationship
because i didnt want to give it to him.i broke up.my friend started saying
stuff which were totally wrong.it was as if she made a story to make me
blind. i still have feelings for him.this time much more deeper .about a month ago i apologized to him and i also said about what i actually felt for him.in reply he said that he really likes me but he's going around with his friend. i was shocked!!! i almost started crying in front of him.he said that we can be friends and he would find me a more caring guy.(is this business??? ) last sunday when we met i asked him about his girl.whenever i try to ask him he changes to topic .the last time when i asked him he said that if i liked him i should not ask the question again. also,he asked me that if he asked me to give him anything he wanted would i give it to him or not.i said that i would give him anything but not s*x.he also touched my waist,my hands and did the leg thing also.i really love him and i dont want him to go...........plz help me!! what do you think i should do ? should i believe that he's going around ,already? what did me mean by that question?? plzzzzzzzzzzz..........................help me!!!! thanx -- lara -- lara |
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Advice
| talk to him.........and ask him what he really wants from u.....of u.its gonna work.believe me |
Lara, I don't think the girl is really your friend. Friends don't play games with friends, especially with matters of the heart. Dump the guy. It's tough to swallow the facts (I know, cause I've just been betrayed too), but if he cared for you, he would come around. He would not say things to upset you, and he would not ask you to "do anything" for him. He would want to do things for you. About his girl, he probably has several. From what you say, he seems to view ladies as conquests. Don't let this Casanova "steal" anything more from you. I would even consider dropping him as a friend, at least until he grows up. Good luck. It does get better with time.