Question
 

i was going out with this guy and we were inlove but we were drifting apart and i noticed he stop calling and coming by i think is cheating on me but i don't want to lose him shoud i talk to him? and find out or should i just go on my gut?
-- kiss4u


Advice
 

I have to state this. There is love and then there is being in love which I consider never fading aka true love. There are many types of love out there, and people seem to forget such things. A working relationship with a healthy love would mean that he would want to work it out and improve it, so by all means ask him what is going on and where the relationship is going. If you don't ask you two will fall apart because you will over work your mind and literally explode. I speak from experience. And if you think he is cheating, you will know by his reaction to your questions- just be sure not to overreact and read his eyes and body movements. I could ramble on but I am trying to be brief because I tend to write nonstop. Good luck with that guy. P.s. if he is worth your time, things will work out, and if they don't then you should see it as something to learn from.